Though we both have plenty to add to this category in the form of damn near debilitating experience, here is an article for anyone who stumbles upon this part of our realm. Full disclosure: we are NOT advocates for trying to repair or stay with a chronically sexless marriage. We have nothing to say about trying to ‘hang in there’, and that includes advocating against trying. We have no comment on that side of the coin as all indications are that maybe 2% of chronically sexless marriages are salvageable. It’s just not something we will be addressing here. Our focus is on helping those people who want to leave a controlled, vacuous relationship, LEAVE.